if you cant beat em, join em

If you cant beat em, join em is the common figure of speech which says that if your adversaries or opponents are stronger than you and you have no way of beating them, it is better to join their side. By joining your adversaries or enemies, you will at least to be able to fight along side them rather than being overcome by their strengths. It is a phrase that shows the importance of settling during certain moments of your life and accepting the inevitable.