Im okay, youre okay

Im okay, youre okay is from a book written by Thomas A. Harris MD of the same name and happens to be one of the best selling self help books ever published. The phrase Im OK, Youre OK was often used in the book which provides practical advice to begin understanding the physical and verbal cues required to analyze transactions. Basically the cliche Im okay, youre okay is a way to say you are trying to understand another persons actions and the reasons for them.